I gave you My Son
on Christmas Day
He would be the one
to make a way.
I gave you My Son
what more do you need?
He sacrificed His life
so all could be freed.
I gave you My Son
have you accepted Him yet?
Do you not know
His death paid your debt?
I gave you My Son
so you may have hope
when times are tough
He will help you to cope.
I gave you My Son
He's been through it all
when you need his help
He'll answer your call.
I gave you My Son
so you might live
just ask Him into your heart
and He'll come right in.
I gave you My Son
His life He had lost
He was willing to give it up
no matter what the cost.
I gave you My Son
He didn't say no
He was willing to save you
and eager to go.
I gave you My Son
He meant everything to Me
there was no other way
can you not see?
This Christmas Day
remember My Son
He's the only way
to enter the gates of Heaven.
Love, God
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Thursday, December 3, 2009
STAYING CONNECTED
"Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in You. Show me the way I should go, for to You I lift up my soul." - Psalm 143:8
Two of the greatest inventions of my time have been the laptop computer and e-mail.
The laptop means I no longer have to stay in one place to be productive inmy business life. E-mail has allowed me to stay connected to people all around the world with the touch of a button.
My greatest frustration is when either of these does not work. Sometimes e-mail cannot be used because I can't get a connection. Sometimes I cannot use my laptop because I have not properly charged it, and then the charge runs out while I am on an airplane. Both of these situations mean I am unable to tap into the resource that allows me to fulfill my calling in my work to the fullest.
The morning time with God is much like these situations.
God pours His Word into my spirit, and I am recharged. This recharging has an important effect on my day. It allows me the greatest opportunity to hear the small voice that directs my steps.
If I refuse to "get connected," I risk following my own ways of fulfilling the duties of my day. It sets forth the opportunity for God to speak into my spirit what He desires for me each day. It allows me to focus on God's purposes, not mine.
The only way to know someone is to spend time with him or her. The only way to discern the voice of another is to hear that person's voice.
David, the author of this psalm, was a warrior, king, and businessman. He understood this principle of connecting with God in the morning. His morning allowed him to connect with God's love, renew his trust in Him, and hear His directions for his life.
Shouldn't you and I do the same?
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
WHAT'S YOUR FOCUS?
It was upon the unplanned, but much welcomed, pregnancy with my son that I began to realize the first of many truths that I would come to know in Christ.
At this stage in my life, I was far from knowing Christ, let alone being in a relationship with Him. But in hindsight, He was there beside me speaking softly to my heart.
I began to realize that the more I focused on other people's needs the more the pieces of my life puzzle naturally fall into place. As I struggled to recover from frontal lobe brain damage from a serious motor vehicle accident, I spent a lot of time thinking about how pitiful my situation was.
My first and strongest motivation to change my life was the baby inside of me. All of a sudden the focus was not on me anymore, I was responsible for another life. In my mind I had purpose again. My focus slowly shifted from how pitiful my life was to how much I wanted to teach my unborn child. I desired to teach this child the importance of not giving up. The importance of integrity, the importance of being responsible, honest, trustworthy, faithful, good, patient, kind, loving and the list goes on. I wanted to
inspire my child to face life head on and thrive each day of his life.
Enter my savior who quietly and discreetly planted those seeds of desire in my heart along with a pinch of conviction. Okay, maybe not a pinch of conviction. It was more like a blast of conviction.
Then it dawned on me.
How could I possibly teach my child to have these qualities if I didn't believe in them strongly enough to live them myself? How can a depressed, dishonest, deceitful, irresponsible, criminally minded mother teach her
child to be the exact opposite of all that? The truth is I couldn't do it.
In Matthew 19:26 (NLT) Jesus reveals that, "Humanly speaking it is impossible. But with God everything is possible." Let that sink in for a minute. Everything is possible.
Here's the best part. It wouldn't be until years later that I would pick up a bible and subsequently ask Jesus to be my personal savior. But in those early days of seeking change-- God was there. Each stage of my son's life and
development marked a turning point for me. As he grew, I became more conscious of him watching me and witnessing my lifestyle. Somehow I was able to make the necessary changes in my life that allowed me to teach my son how
to have integrity, how to be honest, trustworthy, good, patient, kind and he list goes on. God made the impossible happen in my life by listening to my heart. And He did all this despite the fact that I was not yet in relationship with Him.
Several years later as I began to purposefully seek Jesus in the Bible and grow in my desire to know Him, I began to realize just how much of a presence God had in my life all along. The magnitude of this realization literally brought me to my knees. Who pours that kind of love into the life
of a sinner who refuses to give credit where credit is due?
God does.
At this stage in my life, I was far from knowing Christ, let alone being in a relationship with Him. But in hindsight, He was there beside me speaking softly to my heart.
I began to realize that the more I focused on other people's needs the more the pieces of my life puzzle naturally fall into place. As I struggled to recover from frontal lobe brain damage from a serious motor vehicle accident, I spent a lot of time thinking about how pitiful my situation was.
My first and strongest motivation to change my life was the baby inside of me. All of a sudden the focus was not on me anymore, I was responsible for another life. In my mind I had purpose again. My focus slowly shifted from how pitiful my life was to how much I wanted to teach my unborn child. I desired to teach this child the importance of not giving up. The importance of integrity, the importance of being responsible, honest, trustworthy, faithful, good, patient, kind, loving and the list goes on. I wanted to
inspire my child to face life head on and thrive each day of his life.
Enter my savior who quietly and discreetly planted those seeds of desire in my heart along with a pinch of conviction. Okay, maybe not a pinch of conviction. It was more like a blast of conviction.
Then it dawned on me.
How could I possibly teach my child to have these qualities if I didn't believe in them strongly enough to live them myself? How can a depressed, dishonest, deceitful, irresponsible, criminally minded mother teach her
child to be the exact opposite of all that? The truth is I couldn't do it.
In Matthew 19:26 (NLT) Jesus reveals that, "Humanly speaking it is impossible. But with God everything is possible." Let that sink in for a minute. Everything is possible.
Here's the best part. It wouldn't be until years later that I would pick up a bible and subsequently ask Jesus to be my personal savior. But in those early days of seeking change-- God was there. Each stage of my son's life and
development marked a turning point for me. As he grew, I became more conscious of him watching me and witnessing my lifestyle. Somehow I was able to make the necessary changes in my life that allowed me to teach my son how
to have integrity, how to be honest, trustworthy, good, patient, kind and he list goes on. God made the impossible happen in my life by listening to my heart. And He did all this despite the fact that I was not yet in relationship with Him.
Several years later as I began to purposefully seek Jesus in the Bible and grow in my desire to know Him, I began to realize just how much of a presence God had in my life all along. The magnitude of this realization literally brought me to my knees. Who pours that kind of love into the life
of a sinner who refuses to give credit where credit is due?
God does.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
THE SOUND OF GRACE
I'm sure you'll agree that one of the greatest (and most familiar) hymns of the church is Amazing Grace, written by John Newton. I don't believe there has ever been a song written that captures the very essence of the transforming power God has over our lives as believers quite like that hymn.
However, I must admit that as a child, every time I would hear this hymn sung in church, there was one phrase that would always leave me confused. Just didn't make much sense to me.
"Amazing Grace, How Sweet The Sound, That Saved A Wretch Like Me..."
Wait just one minute! Did anyone hear what I just heard? Amazing Grace...How Sweet The Sound? Huh?
Every time I heard that phrase I would look up and around at all the grownups singing, just to see if anyone was as puzzled as I was. Never found one.
Finally, I mustered enough courage to ask someone. But not just anyone.
I went to see Leola Ford. She was one of the senior members of our church's choir.
Leola was somewhat of a source of inspiration for our church, and especially for me. Strangely enough, it was not because of her singing. But rather it was because Leola Ford was blind.
After service one day, I asked her a question that my inquiring mind just had to know. She seemed like the right person to ask.
The Question: Does grace have a sound?
I remember the look on her face like it was yesterday. But more importantly, I remember the answer she gave me. It is one that has stayed with me for quite some time. Leola reached out to locate the top of my head, and as she gave me a few light pats, she leaned over and whispered these words:
"Live A Little Longer. You'll Hear It."
While it didn't make sense to me then, fast forward several years, and I now understand exactly what she meant. Grace indeed has a sound.
It's the sound my minivan made last week, just as I slammed on the brakes to avoid colliding with that metal object that flew off the back of a truck in front of me.
It's the sound of my wife's 87-year old grandmother blowing out the candles on her birthday cake last month, as she endures the inconvenience of dialysis treatment every week.
It's the sound my new neighbor's keys make, as she opens the door to a home that someone else last summer no longer had the money to keep.
The sounds of grace are all around us.
If we could ever (as believers) become blind to some of the things we complain about regarding our lives, and open our ears towards a faithful God, we may be surprised to discover a symphony of grace and salvation.
God's grace is more than amazing.
It's the sweetest sound I know.
However, I must admit that as a child, every time I would hear this hymn sung in church, there was one phrase that would always leave me confused. Just didn't make much sense to me.
"Amazing Grace, How Sweet The Sound, That Saved A Wretch Like Me..."
Wait just one minute! Did anyone hear what I just heard? Amazing Grace...How Sweet The Sound? Huh?
Every time I heard that phrase I would look up and around at all the grownups singing, just to see if anyone was as puzzled as I was. Never found one.
Finally, I mustered enough courage to ask someone. But not just anyone.
I went to see Leola Ford. She was one of the senior members of our church's choir.
Leola was somewhat of a source of inspiration for our church, and especially for me. Strangely enough, it was not because of her singing. But rather it was because Leola Ford was blind.
After service one day, I asked her a question that my inquiring mind just had to know. She seemed like the right person to ask.
The Question: Does grace have a sound?
I remember the look on her face like it was yesterday. But more importantly, I remember the answer she gave me. It is one that has stayed with me for quite some time. Leola reached out to locate the top of my head, and as she gave me a few light pats, she leaned over and whispered these words:
"Live A Little Longer. You'll Hear It."
While it didn't make sense to me then, fast forward several years, and I now understand exactly what she meant. Grace indeed has a sound.
It's the sound my minivan made last week, just as I slammed on the brakes to avoid colliding with that metal object that flew off the back of a truck in front of me.
It's the sound of my wife's 87-year old grandmother blowing out the candles on her birthday cake last month, as she endures the inconvenience of dialysis treatment every week.
It's the sound my new neighbor's keys make, as she opens the door to a home that someone else last summer no longer had the money to keep.
The sounds of grace are all around us.
If we could ever (as believers) become blind to some of the things we complain about regarding our lives, and open our ears towards a faithful God, we may be surprised to discover a symphony of grace and salvation.
God's grace is more than amazing.
It's the sweetest sound I know.
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
THE ROOT OF BITTERNESS
"See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many." Hebrews 12:15
The enemy of our souls has a very specific strategy to destroy relationships. Whether these relationships are in business, marriage, or friendships, the strategy is the same.
A conflict arises, judgments are made, and feelings are hurt. What happens next is the defining point of whether the enemy gains a foothold, or the grace of God covers the wrong.
When a root of bitterness is allowed to be planted and grown, it not only affects that person, but it also affects all others who are involved. It is like a cancer.
Breaking satan's foothold requires at least one person to press into God's grace.
It cannot happen when either party "feels" like it, for none of us will ever feel like forgiving.
None of us feel like talking when we have been hurt.
Our natural response is to withdraw or lash out at the offending party.
It is only obedience that allows God's grace to cover the wrongs incurred. This grace prevents the parties from becoming victims who will seek compensation for their pain.
The next time you are hurt by someone, realize the gravity of the crossroadswhere you find yourself.
Choose grace instead of bitterness.
Then you will be free to move past the hurt, and a root of bitterness will not be given opportunity to grow.
The enemy of our souls has a very specific strategy to destroy relationships. Whether these relationships are in business, marriage, or friendships, the strategy is the same.
A conflict arises, judgments are made, and feelings are hurt. What happens next is the defining point of whether the enemy gains a foothold, or the grace of God covers the wrong.
When a root of bitterness is allowed to be planted and grown, it not only affects that person, but it also affects all others who are involved. It is like a cancer.
Breaking satan's foothold requires at least one person to press into God's grace.
It cannot happen when either party "feels" like it, for none of us will ever feel like forgiving.
None of us feel like talking when we have been hurt.
Our natural response is to withdraw or lash out at the offending party.
It is only obedience that allows God's grace to cover the wrongs incurred. This grace prevents the parties from becoming victims who will seek compensation for their pain.
The next time you are hurt by someone, realize the gravity of the crossroadswhere you find yourself.
Choose grace instead of bitterness.
Then you will be free to move past the hurt, and a root of bitterness will not be given opportunity to grow.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
THE ISOLATION CHAMBER
"Be still and know that I am God...." Psalm 46:10
There is a time and place in our walk with God in which He sets us in a place of waiting.
It is a place in which all past experiences are of no value. It is a time of such stillness that it can disturb the most faithful if we do not understand that He is the one who has brought us to this place for only a season.
It is as if God has placed a wall around us. No new opportunities--simply inactivity.
During these times, God is calling us aside to fashion something new in us. It is an isolation chamber designed to call us to deeper roots of prayer and faith.
It is not a comfortable place, especially for a task-driven workplace believer. Our nature cries out, "You must do something," while God is saying, "Be still and know that I am God."
You know the signs that you have been brought into this chamber when He has removed many things from your life and you can't seem to change anything. Perhaps you are unemployed. Perhaps you are laid up with an illness.
Most religious people live a very planned and orchestrated life where they know almost everything that will happen. But for people in whom God is performing a deeper work, He brings them into a time of quietness that seems almost eerie. They cannot say what God is doing. They just know that He is doing a work that cannot be explained to themselves or to others.
Has God brought you to a place of being still?
Be still and know that He really is God.
When this happens, the chamber will open soon after.
There is a time and place in our walk with God in which He sets us in a place of waiting.
It is a place in which all past experiences are of no value. It is a time of such stillness that it can disturb the most faithful if we do not understand that He is the one who has brought us to this place for only a season.
It is as if God has placed a wall around us. No new opportunities--simply inactivity.
During these times, God is calling us aside to fashion something new in us. It is an isolation chamber designed to call us to deeper roots of prayer and faith.
It is not a comfortable place, especially for a task-driven workplace believer. Our nature cries out, "You must do something," while God is saying, "Be still and know that I am God."
You know the signs that you have been brought into this chamber when He has removed many things from your life and you can't seem to change anything. Perhaps you are unemployed. Perhaps you are laid up with an illness.
Most religious people live a very planned and orchestrated life where they know almost everything that will happen. But for people in whom God is performing a deeper work, He brings them into a time of quietness that seems almost eerie. They cannot say what God is doing. They just know that He is doing a work that cannot be explained to themselves or to others.
Has God brought you to a place of being still?
Be still and know that He really is God.
When this happens, the chamber will open soon after.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
DO FOR OTHERS WHAT GOD DOES FOR YOU
You and I have the privilege to do for others what God does for us. How do we show people that we believe in them?
SHOW UP
Nothing takes the place of your presence. Letters are nice. Phone calls are special, but being there in the flesh sends a message.
Do you believe in your kids? Then show up. Show up at their games. Show up at their plays. Show up at their recitals. It may not be possible to make each one, but it's sure worth the effort. Do you believe in your friends?
Then show up. Show up at their graduations and weddings. Spend time with them. You want to bring out the best in someone? Then show up.
LISTEN UP
You don't have to speak to encourage. The Bible says, "It is best to listen much, speak little" (James 1:19 TLB). We tend to speak much and listen little. There is a time to speak. But there is also a time to be quiet. That's what my father did.
Dropping a fly ball may not be a big deal to most people, but if you are thirteen years old and have aspirations of the big leagues, it is a big deal. Not only was it my second error of the game, it allowed the winning run to score.
I didn't even go back to the dugout. I turned around in the middle of left field and climbed over the fence. I was halfway home when my dad found me. He didn't say a word. Just pulled over to the side of the road, leaned
across the seat, and opened the passenger door. We didn't speak. We didn't need to. We both knew the world had come to an end. When we got home, I went
straight to my room, and he went straight to the kitchen. Presently he appeared in front of me with cookies and milk. He took a seat on the bed, and we broke bread together. Somewhere in the dunking of the cookies I began to realize that life and my father's love would go on. In the economy of male adolescence, if you love the guy who drops the ball, then you really love him. My skill as a baseball player didn't improve, but my confidence in Dad's love did. Dad never said a word. But he did show up. He did listen up. To bring out the best in others, do the same, and then, when appropriate:
SPEAK UP
You have the power to change someone's life simply by the words that you speak. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue" (Prov. 18:21 NKJV).
That's why Paul urges you and me to be careful. "When you talk, do not say harmful things, but say what people need-words that will help others become stronger" (Eph. 4:29).
Earlier I gave you a test for love. There's also a test for the tongue.
Before you speak, ask: Will what I'm about to say help others become
stronger? You have the ability, with your words, to make a person stronger.
Your words are to their soul what a vitamin is to their body.
If you had food and saw someone starving, would you not share it? If you had water and saw someone dying of thirst, would you not give it? Of course you would.
Then won't you do the same for their hearts? Your words are food and water! Do not withhold encouragement from the discouraged.
Do not keep affirmation from the beaten down! Speak words that make people stronger. Believe in them as God has believed in you.
SHOW UP
Nothing takes the place of your presence. Letters are nice. Phone calls are special, but being there in the flesh sends a message.
Do you believe in your kids? Then show up. Show up at their games. Show up at their plays. Show up at their recitals. It may not be possible to make each one, but it's sure worth the effort. Do you believe in your friends?
Then show up. Show up at their graduations and weddings. Spend time with them. You want to bring out the best in someone? Then show up.
LISTEN UP
You don't have to speak to encourage. The Bible says, "It is best to listen much, speak little" (James 1:19 TLB). We tend to speak much and listen little. There is a time to speak. But there is also a time to be quiet. That's what my father did.
Dropping a fly ball may not be a big deal to most people, but if you are thirteen years old and have aspirations of the big leagues, it is a big deal. Not only was it my second error of the game, it allowed the winning run to score.
I didn't even go back to the dugout. I turned around in the middle of left field and climbed over the fence. I was halfway home when my dad found me. He didn't say a word. Just pulled over to the side of the road, leaned
across the seat, and opened the passenger door. We didn't speak. We didn't need to. We both knew the world had come to an end. When we got home, I went
straight to my room, and he went straight to the kitchen. Presently he appeared in front of me with cookies and milk. He took a seat on the bed, and we broke bread together. Somewhere in the dunking of the cookies I began to realize that life and my father's love would go on. In the economy of male adolescence, if you love the guy who drops the ball, then you really love him. My skill as a baseball player didn't improve, but my confidence in Dad's love did. Dad never said a word. But he did show up. He did listen up. To bring out the best in others, do the same, and then, when appropriate:
SPEAK UP
You have the power to change someone's life simply by the words that you speak. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue" (Prov. 18:21 NKJV).
That's why Paul urges you and me to be careful. "When you talk, do not say harmful things, but say what people need-words that will help others become stronger" (Eph. 4:29).
Earlier I gave you a test for love. There's also a test for the tongue.
Before you speak, ask: Will what I'm about to say help others become
stronger? You have the ability, with your words, to make a person stronger.
Your words are to their soul what a vitamin is to their body.
If you had food and saw someone starving, would you not share it? If you had water and saw someone dying of thirst, would you not give it? Of course you would.
Then won't you do the same for their hearts? Your words are food and water! Do not withhold encouragement from the discouraged.
Do not keep affirmation from the beaten down! Speak words that make people stronger. Believe in them as God has believed in you.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
AN AUDIENCE OF ONE
"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--His good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2
What audience do you play to?
Each day you are seen by many who will make a judgment about the way you handle yourself among different audiences.
Politicians have learned to play to their audiences, customizing messages for the needs of their particular groups.
Musicians have learned to play to their audiences.
Pastors play to their congregations each Sunday morning.
Workplace believers play to the audiences who will buy their product.
Christ has called us to play to one audience--the audience of Himself.
When you seek to please any other audience in your life, you become susceptible to situational ethics and motivations based on the need for the moment. Your audience becomes a pawn in your hands because you know what they want. Is that wrong? Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't.
Pure obedience to pleasing God in our lives will often meet the needs of those around us.
It is God's will that you and I love our spouses, provide good services to our customers, and look to the interests of others before ourselves. This will result in meeting many needs of the audiences in our lives.
However, there are other times when our audiences are asking for something contrary to God's will.
Politicians are often forced to appease their audiences, even though it may go against God's laws. When we are asked to go with the flow, we discover which audience is most important in our lives. Is it the audience of One, or the audience of many?
Today, be aware of which audience you are playing to.
Ask yourself why you are taking a particular action.
Is it to please the audience of One?
Or is it to please the audience of others who might negatively impact you should you not play to their tune?
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
YOUR KINDNESS QUOTIENT
How kind are you? What is your kindness quotient? When was the last time you did something kind for someone in your family - e.g., got a blanket, cleaned off the table, prepared the coffee - without being asked?
Think about your school or workplace. Which person is the most overlooked or avoided? A shy student? A grumpy employee? Maybe he doesn't speak the language. Maybe she doesn't fit in. Are you kind to this person?
Kind hearts are quietly kind. They let the car cut into traffic and the young mom with three kids move up in the checkout line. They pick up the neighbor's trash can that rolled into the street.
And they are especially kind at church. They understand that perhaps the neediest person they'll meet all week is the one standing in the foyer or sitting on the row behind them in worship. Paul writes: "When we have the opportunity to help anyone, we should do it. But we should give special attention to those who are in the family of believers" (Gal. 6:10).
And, here is a challenge-what about your enemies? With the boss who fired you or the wife who left you. Suppose you surprised them with kindness? Not easy? No, it's not. But mercy is the deepest gesture of kindness. Paul equates the two. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you" (Eph. 4:32 NKJV). Jesus said:
"Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you. If you love only the people who love you, what praise should you get? Love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without hoping to get anything back. Then you will have a great reward, and you will be children of the Most High God, because he is kind even to people who are ungrateful and full of sin. Show mercy, just as your Father shows mercy." (Luke 6:27-28, 32, 35-36)
Kindness at home. Kindness in public. Kindness at church and kindness with your enemies. Pretty well covers the gamut, don't you think?
Almost. Someone else needs your kindness. Who could that be? You.
Since He is so kind to us, can't we be a little kinder to ourselves? Oh, but you don't know me, Max. You don't know my faults and my thoughts. You don't know the gripes I grumble and the complaints I mumble. No, I don't, but He does. He knows everything about you, yet He doesn't hold back His kindness toward you. Has He, knowing all your secrets, retracted one promise or
reclaimed one gift?
No, He is kind to you. Why don't you be kind to yourself? He forgives your faults. Why don't you do the same?
He thinks tomorrow is worth living. Why don't you agree?
He believes in you enough to call you His ambassador, His follower, even His child. Why not take His cue and believe in yourself?
Be kind to yourself. God thinks you're worth His kindness. And He's a good judge of character.
Think about your school or workplace. Which person is the most overlooked or avoided? A shy student? A grumpy employee? Maybe he doesn't speak the language. Maybe she doesn't fit in. Are you kind to this person?
Kind hearts are quietly kind. They let the car cut into traffic and the young mom with three kids move up in the checkout line. They pick up the neighbor's trash can that rolled into the street.
And they are especially kind at church. They understand that perhaps the neediest person they'll meet all week is the one standing in the foyer or sitting on the row behind them in worship. Paul writes: "When we have the opportunity to help anyone, we should do it. But we should give special attention to those who are in the family of believers" (Gal. 6:10).
And, here is a challenge-what about your enemies? With the boss who fired you or the wife who left you. Suppose you surprised them with kindness? Not easy? No, it's not. But mercy is the deepest gesture of kindness. Paul equates the two. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you" (Eph. 4:32 NKJV). Jesus said:
"Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you. If you love only the people who love you, what praise should you get? Love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without hoping to get anything back. Then you will have a great reward, and you will be children of the Most High God, because he is kind even to people who are ungrateful and full of sin. Show mercy, just as your Father shows mercy." (Luke 6:27-28, 32, 35-36)
Kindness at home. Kindness in public. Kindness at church and kindness with your enemies. Pretty well covers the gamut, don't you think?
Almost. Someone else needs your kindness. Who could that be? You.
Since He is so kind to us, can't we be a little kinder to ourselves? Oh, but you don't know me, Max. You don't know my faults and my thoughts. You don't know the gripes I grumble and the complaints I mumble. No, I don't, but He does. He knows everything about you, yet He doesn't hold back His kindness toward you. Has He, knowing all your secrets, retracted one promise or
reclaimed one gift?
No, He is kind to you. Why don't you be kind to yourself? He forgives your faults. Why don't you do the same?
He thinks tomorrow is worth living. Why don't you agree?
He believes in you enough to call you His ambassador, His follower, even His child. Why not take His cue and believe in yourself?
Be kind to yourself. God thinks you're worth His kindness. And He's a good judge of character.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
SERVING OTHERS
Since when are things--like personal agendas--more important than people?
Never have been, yet we live that way.
With a husband, three kids, a business, and a schedule on wheels, there are countless times I've ignored the phone, been too busy or just felt too overwhelmed to check in on longtime friends, new acquaintances or even family members.
No matter how good our intentions, it's pretty selfish to repeatedly fall into a cycle of putting things above people--things like meetings, moods, deadlines, plans, conditions, desires, events, and more.
God's law commands that we love others as we love ourselves. This stresses the value and priority we should place on "other people." One way to love on others with the love of God is to serve them.
Jesus spent His precious time on the earth loving and serving people. His purpose was the Ultimate Sacrifice, which was in fact the Ultimate Act of Servanthood.
It's hard to shut people out and love them at the same time. When we serve others, we serve God.
Here's a quick list to help keep things in perspective:
Serve not to be seen. Check your motives. Serving others is a selfless act, not a self-centered one.
Step outside the box. When we think of serving others, the traditional ministry volunteering often comes to mind. But we can also serve people by simply reaching out to express genuine concern and interest in their well being.
Persevere. There may be times when people you serve are not very receptive, grateful or appreciative. Forego your expectations, continue on, and put emphasis on the act of serving in love, not the recipient.
Set the tone. Be humble, yet serve with authority and passion. Let God's love create the atmosphere to be fruitful, productive and effective.
Be consistent. There's never been a shortage of people who could use a listening ear, an extra eye or a helping hand. Let your act of service be ongoing, not just for a season.
Accept the timing. Remain open. Serving others will almost always inconvenience you. Push past yourself and heed the call to help others when
it comes.
Don't wait. Perfect conditions will never exist. Decide on an act of service and do it today.
Never have been, yet we live that way.
With a husband, three kids, a business, and a schedule on wheels, there are countless times I've ignored the phone, been too busy or just felt too overwhelmed to check in on longtime friends, new acquaintances or even family members.
No matter how good our intentions, it's pretty selfish to repeatedly fall into a cycle of putting things above people--things like meetings, moods, deadlines, plans, conditions, desires, events, and more.
God's law commands that we love others as we love ourselves. This stresses the value and priority we should place on "other people." One way to love on others with the love of God is to serve them.
Jesus spent His precious time on the earth loving and serving people. His purpose was the Ultimate Sacrifice, which was in fact the Ultimate Act of Servanthood.
It's hard to shut people out and love them at the same time. When we serve others, we serve God.
Here's a quick list to help keep things in perspective:
Serve not to be seen. Check your motives. Serving others is a selfless act, not a self-centered one.
Step outside the box. When we think of serving others, the traditional ministry volunteering often comes to mind. But we can also serve people by simply reaching out to express genuine concern and interest in their well being.
Persevere. There may be times when people you serve are not very receptive, grateful or appreciative. Forego your expectations, continue on, and put emphasis on the act of serving in love, not the recipient.
Set the tone. Be humble, yet serve with authority and passion. Let God's love create the atmosphere to be fruitful, productive and effective.
Be consistent. There's never been a shortage of people who could use a listening ear, an extra eye or a helping hand. Let your act of service be ongoing, not just for a season.
Accept the timing. Remain open. Serving others will almost always inconvenience you. Push past yourself and heed the call to help others when
it comes.
Don't wait. Perfect conditions will never exist. Decide on an act of service and do it today.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
A LIFESTYLE OF GIVING
"whatever a man sows, that he will also reap." Galatians 6:7b
When I read that scripture, I get very excited about giving. I mean uncontainable excitement and guess what, I am not even thinking about
financial giving.
It seems sometimes we get stuck there - believing the only way we can give is with money. This means if we don't have any money, we may feel that we have nothing to give.
However, there are so many other ways to give. Matter of fact, giving should be a part of your lifestyle. It should be something that you do so freely and regularly that it's just a natural part of who you are.
So you ask, "How can I give something other than money?"
You can give of your time by serving in a ministry within the four walls of your church or even volunteering with an organization in your community.
Going even further than that, make sure you are giving your time to your family. Don't always give the best of you to everyone else and only give your family your leftovers.
You can give of your heart and compassion to those that may simply need someone to talk to, or a shoulder to cry on or someone to pray with them.
Sometimes giving of your heart may be sharing an encouraging word or even a simple hug or hello to a stranger.
Of course, you can also give of your money--in addition to your regular tithes and offering--you can give to some of the special projects your
church may be working on. You can give to that youth trying to save money to go study abroad. You can give to that family down the street that may be struggling due to someone being laid off. You can give to your local homeless shelter or children's hospital.
Needless to say, daily we are presented with opportunities to give. Let's all make an effort to give something of ourselves daily until it becomes a lifestyle.
I guarantee you will find out what it means to be blessed to be a blessing!
Thursday, September 17, 2009
STORING UP TREASURES
I know a man who has built a small empire of wealth--several large houses, cars, trucks, and large envelopes filled with thousands of dollars in cash. In addition to having a few thousands in his house, last year, he resorted to hiding a large sum in cash under a doghouse in his yard.
No, I am not giving you his address!
When I think about him and people like him, my heart breaks because, he has pursued and accumulated wealth here and failed to build a relationship with Jesus.
I imagine this is exactly what Jesus was talking about, in Matthew 6:19-21, when he said, "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth...But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven."
To understand what Jesus meant, we need to know what He did not mean. Jesus was not saying we could not have nice things, or that we could not engage in wise financial planning. Moreover, He was not saying we could not enjoy
wealth and the good things in life that God gives us, or we could not run our businesses profitably.
What did Jesus mean?
Jesus is talking about two types of treasures.
The first type is the kind we accumulate on earth. These treasures are vulnerable to all kinds of decay and theft. Jesus is saying, don't make acquiring and accumulating these types of treasures--houses, cars, degrees, prestige, popularity, vintage comic books, coin collections, paintings, CDs and albums--our main concentration, obsession and addiction, at the expense and neglect of the most important treasure--God and helping those in need.
We should guard our hearts against the addictive pursuit of material wealth because of its dangers--the love of them is the root to all kinds of evils, may hinder people's response to the gospel, create false security, make people proud, cause excessive worry, and lead people to forget God. Working for them may cause excessive tiredness, enjoying them too much may lead to self-indulgence, and misusing them may foster oppression and injustice.
The alternative is laying up treasures in heaven. He is not saying people can buy their way to heaven. However, He is calling His followers to simplify their lives and leverage their time, and wealth for the sake of people in need (Matthew 19:21; 1Timothy 6:17-19). When His followers with pure motives (Matthew 6:1-4), do good, are rich in good deeds, are generous and willing to share with the marginalized, they will be laying up treasures in heaven.
Jesus goes on to say wherever our treasures and wealth are, our whole selves will be entwined with them. This verse becomes a gracious mirror in which we can see where our hearts really are.
Jesus is warning us against being totally earthbound at the neglect of eternal values.
So, how can we determine today if we are pursuing wealth at the expense of God? How can we understand where our hearts really are? I believe the following questions can help us:
What occupies my thoughts and daydreams when I have nothing else to do?
What do I fret about most?
Apart from my immediate family, who or what do I most dread losing?
What are the things I measure others by?
What is it that we know we cannot be happy without?
Let's pray about and determine how much is enough and release the rest to build the kingdom and help others find the real treasure: Jesus.
by Pastor Marvin Williams
No, I am not giving you his address!
When I think about him and people like him, my heart breaks because, he has pursued and accumulated wealth here and failed to build a relationship with Jesus.
I imagine this is exactly what Jesus was talking about, in Matthew 6:19-21, when he said, "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth...But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven."
To understand what Jesus meant, we need to know what He did not mean. Jesus was not saying we could not have nice things, or that we could not engage in wise financial planning. Moreover, He was not saying we could not enjoy
wealth and the good things in life that God gives us, or we could not run our businesses profitably.
What did Jesus mean?
Jesus is talking about two types of treasures.
The first type is the kind we accumulate on earth. These treasures are vulnerable to all kinds of decay and theft. Jesus is saying, don't make acquiring and accumulating these types of treasures--houses, cars, degrees, prestige, popularity, vintage comic books, coin collections, paintings, CDs and albums--our main concentration, obsession and addiction, at the expense and neglect of the most important treasure--God and helping those in need.
We should guard our hearts against the addictive pursuit of material wealth because of its dangers--the love of them is the root to all kinds of evils, may hinder people's response to the gospel, create false security, make people proud, cause excessive worry, and lead people to forget God. Working for them may cause excessive tiredness, enjoying them too much may lead to self-indulgence, and misusing them may foster oppression and injustice.
The alternative is laying up treasures in heaven. He is not saying people can buy their way to heaven. However, He is calling His followers to simplify their lives and leverage their time, and wealth for the sake of people in need (Matthew 19:21; 1Timothy 6:17-19). When His followers with pure motives (Matthew 6:1-4), do good, are rich in good deeds, are generous and willing to share with the marginalized, they will be laying up treasures in heaven.
Jesus goes on to say wherever our treasures and wealth are, our whole selves will be entwined with them. This verse becomes a gracious mirror in which we can see where our hearts really are.
Jesus is warning us against being totally earthbound at the neglect of eternal values.
So, how can we determine today if we are pursuing wealth at the expense of God? How can we understand where our hearts really are? I believe the following questions can help us:
What occupies my thoughts and daydreams when I have nothing else to do?
What do I fret about most?
Apart from my immediate family, who or what do I most dread losing?
What are the things I measure others by?
What is it that we know we cannot be happy without?
Let's pray about and determine how much is enough and release the rest to build the kingdom and help others find the real treasure: Jesus.
by Pastor Marvin Williams
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
MOVING BEYOND THE MOMENT
"Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high
calling of God in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 3:13-14)
Sometimes, the things that hinder us from moving forward in our journey aren't always bad things.
It is possible to become hostage to our past by trying to relive something that has come and gone. This can take the form of trying to relive past achievements or defining moments in our lives.
We've all met people like this. In their wallet or purse they carry pictures or newspaper clippings of a climactic moment in their lives. They speak of the past in the present tense, as if these events happened yesterday.
It is healthy to celebrate our past moments in life, but it is unhealthy to become stuck in a moment and miss the rest of life.
Life is a motion picture, not a snapshot. It is always moving and stands still for no one.
Those who have a snapshot perspective of life can be easily identified by their conversation. They always talk about the past and how things used to be, or they dwell on what someone did to them years ago.
It's almost as if they stopped living once that moment transpired. Although they can easily recall in detail a particular moment in time that occurred years ago, they cannot clearly articulate their plans for the future.
Often, people who develop a snapshot perspective of life lose their identity in the event or situation. They define who they are by that moment in time instead of who they are as a person.
You are more than a moment! You are a motion picture that is not defined by a snapshot or one frame of the picture. If you refuse to allow your past to define your future, you will discover that life has much more to offer you than a memory.
calling of God in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 3:13-14)
Sometimes, the things that hinder us from moving forward in our journey aren't always bad things.
It is possible to become hostage to our past by trying to relive something that has come and gone. This can take the form of trying to relive past achievements or defining moments in our lives.
We've all met people like this. In their wallet or purse they carry pictures or newspaper clippings of a climactic moment in their lives. They speak of the past in the present tense, as if these events happened yesterday.
It is healthy to celebrate our past moments in life, but it is unhealthy to become stuck in a moment and miss the rest of life.
Life is a motion picture, not a snapshot. It is always moving and stands still for no one.
Those who have a snapshot perspective of life can be easily identified by their conversation. They always talk about the past and how things used to be, or they dwell on what someone did to them years ago.
It's almost as if they stopped living once that moment transpired. Although they can easily recall in detail a particular moment in time that occurred years ago, they cannot clearly articulate their plans for the future.
Often, people who develop a snapshot perspective of life lose their identity in the event or situation. They define who they are by that moment in time instead of who they are as a person.
You are more than a moment! You are a motion picture that is not defined by a snapshot or one frame of the picture. If you refuse to allow your past to define your future, you will discover that life has much more to offer you than a memory.
Friday, August 28, 2009
STEPS OUT OF ANGER
We all have to deal with anger. So, how can we resolve anger?
Here are five important steps to get out of the anger trap:
Step 1: SORT IT OUT
Try to understand why you are angry. Remember, there is a difference between the normal irritations in life and a persistent state of anger.
Step 2: COUNT THE COST
One of the predominant causes of divorce today is negative behavior such as unkind words, abuse and constant fighting. One psychologist says that an
angry confrontation can erase 20 acts of kindness. The point is, anger can cost us dearly if we do not keep it in check.
Step 3: LET IT OUT
Release your anger to God in prayer. Tell God how you feel. He can handle it. Then go talk about it with a friend. Or, even the person you're angry at, if you can do it constructively. Whatever you do, don't keep your anger
locked up in your heart. Repressed anger visits in a host of emotional and relational problems.
Step 4: SET LIMITS
That means to control your words and behavior. God tells us to get a grip on our tongues: "When words are many, sin is not absent. But he who keeps a tight rein on his tongue is wise" (Proverbs 10:19). Don't cross the line of
verbal or physical abuse no matter how frustrated you get. Don't justify or excuse such abusive behaviors.
Step 5: GIVE IT UP
As Christians, we do not have the right to remain angry. In Christ, we have given up that right. We surrender our anger to Him and forgive others as He has forgiven us. When we forgive, we are free indeed. Free from resentment, bitterness, and anger.
So, as we walk today through the mine field of relationships replete with misunderstandings, remember the word of God: "Be angry and sin not. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry" (Ephesians 4:26).
by Dr. David C. Cooper
Thursday, August 20, 2009
EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP
"And when the Israelites saw the great power the Lord displayed against the Egyptians, the people feared the Lord and put their trust in Him and in Moses His servant." Exodus 14:31
What makes an effective Christian leader today?
Is it charisma? Is it ability? Is it communication and oratory skills?
God's view of an effective leader has nothing to do with these qualities. They may be a part of an effective leader.
However, the core attribute of a Christian leader is his integrity with God and his obedience to follow Him. When this happens, God manifests His power in and through that leader.
Moses was effective because he was willing to obey the commands God gave him. When Moses did this, God manifested His presence in him. The result was that people followed. They followed because they saw God working in and through the man. They saw that this man was worthy of following because God's anointing was on him.
When people see the Lord's power manifested in your life, they will have a healthy fear of the Lord.
They will look at you and say, "This person has something I don't have that is worthy of more investigation."
Your challenge is to seek the Lord with a whole heart, resulting in God's power being manifested in the daily activities of your life. When this happens, you can expect others to be drawn to what they see in you.
The problem with many Christians today is that non-Christians see nothing different about the way they live to motivate the unsaved to desire their faith.
What makes you different from your neighbor?
Is your experience with God noticeably different from that of the man next door?
If you're not experiencing regular encounters with God, it's time to ask why not.
We don't live day-to-day for the next spiritual experience, but we should see by-products of a life centered in God that is reflected in fruit from His presence in our lives.
What makes an effective Christian leader today?
Is it charisma? Is it ability? Is it communication and oratory skills?
God's view of an effective leader has nothing to do with these qualities. They may be a part of an effective leader.
However, the core attribute of a Christian leader is his integrity with God and his obedience to follow Him. When this happens, God manifests His power in and through that leader.
Moses was effective because he was willing to obey the commands God gave him. When Moses did this, God manifested His presence in him. The result was that people followed. They followed because they saw God working in and through the man. They saw that this man was worthy of following because God's anointing was on him.
When people see the Lord's power manifested in your life, they will have a healthy fear of the Lord.
They will look at you and say, "This person has something I don't have that is worthy of more investigation."
Your challenge is to seek the Lord with a whole heart, resulting in God's power being manifested in the daily activities of your life. When this happens, you can expect others to be drawn to what they see in you.
The problem with many Christians today is that non-Christians see nothing different about the way they live to motivate the unsaved to desire their faith.
What makes you different from your neighbor?
Is your experience with God noticeably different from that of the man next door?
If you're not experiencing regular encounters with God, it's time to ask why not.
We don't live day-to-day for the next spiritual experience, but we should see by-products of a life centered in God that is reflected in fruit from His presence in our lives.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
WHEN GOD SEEMS FAR AWAY
"Why, O Lord, do You stand far off? Why do You hide Yourself in times of trouble?" Psalm 10:1
One of the great mysteries of God is His ways.
Some of His ways almost appear to bring us into the most difficult places, as if He were indifferent to our circumstances. It would appear that He is turning His head from our sorrows.
These events in our lives have a particular objective to perform for us. That objective is to bring us to the end of ourselves that we might discover the treasure of darkness.
"Yet when I hoped for good, evil came; when I looked for light, then came darkness" (Job 30:26).
When we are taken into these dark periods, we begin to see light that we never knew existed. Our sensitivities become heightened and our ability to see through spiritual eyes is illuminated.
Unless we are taken into these times, our souls never develop any depth of character. We do not gain wisdom, only knowledge.
Knowledge is gained through understanding; wisdom is gained through the experience of darkness.
After we go through these periods, we discover that God was, in fact, with us throughout the entire time. It does not feel or appear that He is there when we are in the midst of the dark periods.
However, He is there walking with us. He has told us countless times that He will never leave us.
When we are in those dark periods, it does not feel like He is there because He does not rescue us from the circumstances.
He does this for our benefit in order that we might become more like Jesus.
Jesus learned obedience from the things He suffered (see Heb. 5:8). What does that say about how you and I will learn obedience?
Embrace the dark times and gain the wisdom that God intends for you from these times.
One of the great mysteries of God is His ways.
Some of His ways almost appear to bring us into the most difficult places, as if He were indifferent to our circumstances. It would appear that He is turning His head from our sorrows.
These events in our lives have a particular objective to perform for us. That objective is to bring us to the end of ourselves that we might discover the treasure of darkness.
"Yet when I hoped for good, evil came; when I looked for light, then came darkness" (Job 30:26).
When we are taken into these dark periods, we begin to see light that we never knew existed. Our sensitivities become heightened and our ability to see through spiritual eyes is illuminated.
Unless we are taken into these times, our souls never develop any depth of character. We do not gain wisdom, only knowledge.
Knowledge is gained through understanding; wisdom is gained through the experience of darkness.
After we go through these periods, we discover that God was, in fact, with us throughout the entire time. It does not feel or appear that He is there when we are in the midst of the dark periods.
However, He is there walking with us. He has told us countless times that He will never leave us.
When we are in those dark periods, it does not feel like He is there because He does not rescue us from the circumstances.
He does this for our benefit in order that we might become more like Jesus.
Jesus learned obedience from the things He suffered (see Heb. 5:8). What does that say about how you and I will learn obedience?
Embrace the dark times and gain the wisdom that God intends for you from these times.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
LIFE'S BOOK
No matter what else you are doing,
From cradle days through to the end,
You are writing your life's secret story
Each day sees another page penned.
Each month ends a thirty-page chapter,
Each year means the end of a part.
And never an act is misstated
Not even one wish of the heart.
Each day when you wake, the book opens,
Revealing a page clean and white.
What thoughts and what words and what doings
Will cover its pages by night?
God leaves that to you, you're the writer
And never a word shall grow dim,
Till the day you write the word "Finish"
And give your Life's Book back to Him.
-- Sherwin
From cradle days through to the end,
You are writing your life's secret story
Each day sees another page penned.
Each month ends a thirty-page chapter,
Each year means the end of a part.
And never an act is misstated
Not even one wish of the heart.
Each day when you wake, the book opens,
Revealing a page clean and white.
What thoughts and what words and what doings
Will cover its pages by night?
God leaves that to you, you're the writer
And never a word shall grow dim,
Till the day you write the word "Finish"
And give your Life's Book back to Him.
-- Sherwin
Thursday, July 30, 2009
A PIECE OF CAKE
(Have you ever thought: "What did I do to deserve this?" or "Why did God have to do this to me?" Remember this story the next time you do.)
A daughter is telling her mom how everything is going wrong: she is struggling in algebra, her boyfriend broke up with her and her best friend is moving away.
Meanwhile, her mom is baking a cake and asks her daughter if she would like a snack.
"Absolutely, Mom, I love you cake."
"Here, have some cooking oil," her mom offers.
"Yuck," says the daughter.
"How about some raw eggs?" asks the mom.
"Gross, Mom!"
"Would you like some flour on them?" asks Mom.
"Mom, these are all yucky!" says the daughter.
To which the mother replies, "Yes, all these things seem bad by themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully, delicious cake."
God works the same way. Many times, we wonder why He
would let us go through such bad and difficult times.
But God knows that when He puts all these things in His
order, they always work for good! We just have to trust
Him and eventually, they will all make something wonderful.
Hope your day is "a piece of cake"!
--Sherwin
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
SHINE
"Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars for ever and ever." Daniel 12:3 (NIV)
"If I only knew God's will for my life, I could plan my future."
Have you ever made that statement?
I think we all do some time in our lives. I know I do.
I have heard teens say so as they peer into the future. I've known young adults who say so while choosing a career. I've had this discussion with friends when they realized a little time management allows for a few extra hours in each week. Other mothers and I have wondered the same when we became empty nesters. I know those about to retire search for "God's plan for this phase of my life."
So what is God's plan for our lives? If you are like me, you want particulars. Only I am not sure God always gives us the step-by-step instructions we desire.
I remember a time in my life when I asked God to give me direction. I asked that He tell me where to move. My husband and I had a choice, but had to give an answer quickly.
"Tonight," my husband said, "I have to respond to the offer this evening." He suggested I spend the day in prayer and give him the verdict by dinnertime.
I sat down at my dining room table to pray. I explained to God what He already knew: "We have these opportunities. Do we go here or there?"
Silence.
"We want to go where You lead us. Where would that be?"
Silence.
"We want to honor You."
Silence.
"Do You know that we have to give an answer today? I'm waiting to hear from You." I sat as still as possible, trying to be patient.
God never told me where to go that day, but He did remind me that His plan for each one of us is universal and at the same time unique.
As I considered my two alternatives, my mind traveled back in time to the many moves my husband and I had made. Wherever we had lived, God had laid out unique opportunities for us to serve Him and each chance to minister appeared under one universal command, "Let your light shine. Love one another."
He had never specifically told us to start a bus ministry, serve as youth leaders, host a neighborhood Bible study, or mentor teens in a youth home.
I began to realize that God was not going to tell me where to move. He had a message for me. I remember it to this day, twenty-two years later.
"It really doesn't matter where you are. You are in Me and I am in you. Wherever you live, wherever you go, wherever you work, you will find people who need Me. Introduce them to your heavenly Father. Live a life that
encourages others to seek Me. Love all people. Teach them how to live. Use your life, your actions, and My Word. This is what you can do whether you live here or there. Remember, wherever you go, I am with you. Wherever you
go take Me with you and let your light shine."
As I said, God never told me where we should move. We made our choice to take God with us asking Him to use our lives to bring His Light into others' lives.
Ever wonder what God's will is for your life? It's simple:
Shine!
Dear Lord, Your Word clearly details Your plan for my life. Forgive me for wanting all the specific details before I step out to reflect Your glory. I want to spend my days shining as a light in the darkness. In Jesus' Name,
Amen.
"If I only knew God's will for my life, I could plan my future."
Have you ever made that statement?
I think we all do some time in our lives. I know I do.
I have heard teens say so as they peer into the future. I've known young adults who say so while choosing a career. I've had this discussion with friends when they realized a little time management allows for a few extra hours in each week. Other mothers and I have wondered the same when we became empty nesters. I know those about to retire search for "God's plan for this phase of my life."
So what is God's plan for our lives? If you are like me, you want particulars. Only I am not sure God always gives us the step-by-step instructions we desire.
I remember a time in my life when I asked God to give me direction. I asked that He tell me where to move. My husband and I had a choice, but had to give an answer quickly.
"Tonight," my husband said, "I have to respond to the offer this evening." He suggested I spend the day in prayer and give him the verdict by dinnertime.
I sat down at my dining room table to pray. I explained to God what He already knew: "We have these opportunities. Do we go here or there?"
Silence.
"We want to go where You lead us. Where would that be?"
Silence.
"We want to honor You."
Silence.
"Do You know that we have to give an answer today? I'm waiting to hear from You." I sat as still as possible, trying to be patient.
God never told me where to go that day, but He did remind me that His plan for each one of us is universal and at the same time unique.
As I considered my two alternatives, my mind traveled back in time to the many moves my husband and I had made. Wherever we had lived, God had laid out unique opportunities for us to serve Him and each chance to minister appeared under one universal command, "Let your light shine. Love one another."
He had never specifically told us to start a bus ministry, serve as youth leaders, host a neighborhood Bible study, or mentor teens in a youth home.
I began to realize that God was not going to tell me where to move. He had a message for me. I remember it to this day, twenty-two years later.
"It really doesn't matter where you are. You are in Me and I am in you. Wherever you live, wherever you go, wherever you work, you will find people who need Me. Introduce them to your heavenly Father. Live a life that
encourages others to seek Me. Love all people. Teach them how to live. Use your life, your actions, and My Word. This is what you can do whether you live here or there. Remember, wherever you go, I am with you. Wherever you
go take Me with you and let your light shine."
As I said, God never told me where we should move. We made our choice to take God with us asking Him to use our lives to bring His Light into others' lives.
Ever wonder what God's will is for your life? It's simple:
Shine!
Dear Lord, Your Word clearly details Your plan for my life. Forgive me for wanting all the specific details before I step out to reflect Your glory. I want to spend my days shining as a light in the darkness. In Jesus' Name,
Amen.
Friday, July 17, 2009
COURAGE
John the Baptist. He truly was a "different" character.
When those around him were wearing Under Armour and Nike tunics, he was wearing a home-made version of camel hair. His diet of locust and honey made him "organic" long before they starting twice as much for it!
But what made John the Baptist stand out was his unwavering commitment to live and proclaim his worldview in a hostile environment.
When church-goers were content to "fill their pew", John the Baptist called them to follow Christ.
When church leaders grew infatuated with position, status and hierarchy, he called them to repentance.
When King Herod wanted to have an affair with Herodias, his brother's wife, John stood up and said, "That is wrong."
The latter would eventually cost him his head.
We live in an ever increasingly "gray" world where the politically correct are applauded for their tolerance and where those who forsake such shallow ovations are denigrated.
The "morally courageous" are prompted to act rightly in the face of popular opposition.
by Dr. Gary Cramer
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
WHERE DOES YOUR FAITH LIE
If you have been keeping up with current events, you know that the story told by the media is very bleak. Unemployment numbers are at an all time high, crime is on the rise, marital relationships are deteriorating, the
financial institutions and auto companies are failing, and life threatening diseases are killing thousands of people.
One could find themselves depressed, panicky, stressed and overwhelmed if they allowed these reports to rule their lives. And what's unfortunate is that the church sometimes seems to be just as scared right now as the world.
Which brings me to the question of where or in whom does your faith lay?
"For we walk by faith, not by sight" 2 Corinthians 5:7
If your faith is built on worldly institutions, then yes, you should be running to the hills fearing for your life.
But if you have built your faith in God, then your head should still be held high as you confidently go through each day knowing God is in control.
Now I am not foolish enough to think that we won't sometimes get discouraged and that worry may not creep up and rear its ugly head. But when those times come, we must seek God, maybe like we have never done before, to get through those times.
God knows that our faith will sometimes be shaken up. He just wants you to take that first baby step.
"If you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, 'move from here to there,' and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you." Matthew 17:20
Have you seen the size of a mustard seed? It's tiny!
So don't throw in the towel because you can't seem to muster up an overwhelming amount of faith.
Walk in the little bit you may have. And as you continue to seek God's face and direction, your faith will continue to grow.
It's just like a flower, you have to water it and nurture it in order to cultivate it.
And there is no better time than the present to start (or continue) that process.
Do it and watch God honor your commitment.
"But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him."
Hebrews 11:6
Thursday, June 25, 2009
STRIVING TO BE WEAK
Weaknesses get a bad rap. Really, we don't give them enough credit.
Strengths are always in the spotlight--when we were kids and even now as adults.
We live by our strengths; they preserve us.
But let's talk about needs.
I remember entering 2009 feeling an earnest need for more of God's guidance. Six months later, I'm clear that my strengths won't play much of a role in helping me get it.
I first learned that I never have to contemplate God's guidance. He's committed to it. "For He is our God forever and ever; He will be our guide, even to death" (Psalm 49:14).
His part is done, now I must do mine.
More of His guidance requires less of me. And "less of me" is everything opposite my strengths.
I associate "strengths" with power and stability; being firm and sure; comfortable; superior; being one or two steps ahead.
When I think "weaknesses" my mind goes to needing assistance; being sub-par, broken, mediocre and pliable.
How much can God truly guide me when I operate in my strengths?
Do I even hear His direction when I'm rock solid, proud, filled with self-confidence and feeling on top?
Flexing my strengths is way overrated and lacks the connection and potency I'm looking for.
On the other hand, my weaknesses make me good and uncomfortable to the point that I know I can't do this--whatever it is--without Him.
It's the place where I'm humble and God has my attention; where I am His clay, willing and ready to be shaped, molded and made stronger for Him.
I no longer say my weaknesses are negative.
In fact, there's nothing more positive than being a helpless dependent on Christ.
In my strengths, I know God.
But in my weaknesses, I need Him.
And that's when He guides me most.
by Lisa Birch
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
POWER OF THE TONGUE
"The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit." - Proverbs 18:21
Words have the power to motivate or destroy, energize or deflate, inspire or create despair.
Many successful executives can remember the time their father failed to give affirmation to them as a child. The result was either over-achievement to prove their worth, or underachievement to prove he was right.
Many a wife has lost her ability to love because of a critical husband. Many a husband has left a marriage because of words of disrespect and ungratefulness.
Stories abound regarding the power of words. There are just as many stories of those who have been encouraged, challenged, and comforted with words that made a difference in their lives.
Jesus knew the power of words.
He used parables to convey His principles of the Kingdom of God. He used words of forgiveness and mercy. He used words to challenge. He used words to inspire His disciples to miraculous faith.
Do your words give life? Do they inspire and challenge others to greatness? Who does God want you to encourage through your words today?
Affirm someone close to you today.
by Os Hillman
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
THE BRAVE LITTLE SOUL
THE BRAVE LITTLE SOUL
Not too long ago in Heaven, there was a little soul who took wonder in observing the world. He especially enjoyed the love he saw there and often expressed this joy with God.
One day, however, the little soul was sad, for on this day, he saw suffering in the world.
He approached God and sadly asked, "Why do bad things happen? Why is there suffering in the world?"
God paused for a moment and replied, "Little soul, do not be sad, for the suffering you see, unlocks the love in people's hearts."
The little soul was confused. "What do you mean,"
he asked.
God replied, "Have you not noticed the goodness and love that is the offspring of that suffering? Look at how people come together, drop their differences and show their love and compassion for those who suffer. All their other motivations disappear and they become motivated by love alone."
The little soul began to understand and listened attentively as God continued, "The suffering soul unlocks the love in people's hearts much like the sun and the rain unlock the flower within the seed. I created everyone with endless love in their heart, but unfortunately, most people keep it
locked up and hardly share it with anyone. They are afraid to let their love shine freely, because they are afraid of being hurt. But a suffering soul unlocks that love. I tell you this--it is the greatest miracle of all. Many souls have bravely chosen to go into the world and suffer--to unlock this love, to create this miracle--for the good of all humanity."
Just then the little soul got a wonderful idea and could hardly contain himself. Bouncing up and down, the little soul excitedly replied, "I am brave; let me go! I would like to go into the world and suffer so that I can unlock the goodness and love in people's hearts! I want to create that
miracle!"
God smiled and said, "You are a brave soul I know, and thus I will grant your request. But even though you are very brave, you will not be able to do this alone. I have known since the beginning of time that you would ask for
this and so I have carefully selected many souls to care for you on your journey. Those souls will help you create your miracle; however they will also share in your suffering. Two of these souls are most special and will care for you, help you and suffer along with you, far beyond the others. They have already chosen a name for you."
God and the brave little soul shared a smile, and then embraced.
In parting, God said, "Do not forget, little soul, that I will be with you always. Although you have agreed to bear the pain, you will do so through my strength. And if the time should come when you feel that you have suffered enough, just say the word, think the thought, and you will be healed."
Thus, at that moment, the brave little soul was born into the world, and through his suffering and God's strength, he unlocked the goodness and love in people's hearts.
For so many people dropped their differences and came together to show their love. Priorities became properly aligned. People gave from their hearts.
Those that were always too busy found time. Many began new spiritual journeys--some regained lost faith, many came back to God.
Parents hugged their children tighter. Friends and family grew closer. Old friends got together and new friendships were made. Distant family reunited, and every family spent more time together.
Everyone prayed. Peace and love reigned. Lives changed forever. It was good. The world was a better place.
The miracle had happened. God was pleased.
--by John Alessi
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
HIDDEN TREASURES
A man was exploring caves by the seashore.
In one of the caves he found a canvas bag with a bunch of hardened clay balls. It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in the sun to bake.
They didn't look like much, but they intrigued the man, so he took the bag out of the cave with him. As he strolled along the beach, he would throw the clay balls one at a time out into the ocean as far as he could.
He thought little about it, until he dropped one of the clay balls and it cracked open on a rock.
Inside was a beautiful precious stone.
Excited, the man started breaking open the remaining clay balls. Each contained a similar treasure.
He found thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the 20 or so clay balls he had left.
Then it struck him. He had been on the beach a long time. He had thrown maybe 50 or 60 of the clay balls with their hidden treasure into the ocean waves.
Instead of thousands of dollars in treasure, he could have taken home tens of thousands, but he had just thrown it away!
It's like that with people.
We look at someone, maybe even ourselves, and we see the external clay vessel.
It doesn't look like much from the outside.
It isn't always beautiful or sparkling, so we discount it.
We see that person as less important than someone more beautiful or stylish or well known or wealthy.
But we have not taken the time to find the treasure hidden inside that person.
There is a treasure in each and every one of us. If we take the time to get to know that person, and if we ask God to show us that person the way He sees them, then the clay begins to peel away and the brilliant gem begins to shine forth.
May we not come to the end of our lives and find out that we have thrown away a fortune in friendships because the gems were hidden in bits of clay.
May we see the people in our world as God sees them.
--Author Unknown
In one of the caves he found a canvas bag with a bunch of hardened clay balls. It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in the sun to bake.
They didn't look like much, but they intrigued the man, so he took the bag out of the cave with him. As he strolled along the beach, he would throw the clay balls one at a time out into the ocean as far as he could.
He thought little about it, until he dropped one of the clay balls and it cracked open on a rock.
Inside was a beautiful precious stone.
Excited, the man started breaking open the remaining clay balls. Each contained a similar treasure.
He found thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the 20 or so clay balls he had left.
Then it struck him. He had been on the beach a long time. He had thrown maybe 50 or 60 of the clay balls with their hidden treasure into the ocean waves.
Instead of thousands of dollars in treasure, he could have taken home tens of thousands, but he had just thrown it away!
It's like that with people.
We look at someone, maybe even ourselves, and we see the external clay vessel.
It doesn't look like much from the outside.
It isn't always beautiful or sparkling, so we discount it.
We see that person as less important than someone more beautiful or stylish or well known or wealthy.
But we have not taken the time to find the treasure hidden inside that person.
There is a treasure in each and every one of us. If we take the time to get to know that person, and if we ask God to show us that person the way He sees them, then the clay begins to peel away and the brilliant gem begins to shine forth.
May we not come to the end of our lives and find out that we have thrown away a fortune in friendships because the gems were hidden in bits of clay.
May we see the people in our world as God sees them.
--Author Unknown
Thursday, May 28, 2009
DON'T QUIT
When things go wrong as they sometime will
When the road you are trudging seems all uphill
When funds are low and debts are high
And instead of a smile you have a sigh
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest in God's love and never quit
Life can be strange with its turns and twists
And many a failed man have turned away
When with God's help he'd have won the day.
Never give up though the pace seems slow
For you may succeed with another go
Success is the failure turned inside out
The silver line in the cloud of doubt
You never can tell how close you are
The goal may be near when it seems so far
So turn to the Lord and when you're hardest hit
Put your trust in Him and never quit
When the road you are trudging seems all uphill
When funds are low and debts are high
And instead of a smile you have a sigh
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest in God's love and never quit
Life can be strange with its turns and twists
And many a failed man have turned away
When with God's help he'd have won the day.
Never give up though the pace seems slow
For you may succeed with another go
Success is the failure turned inside out
The silver line in the cloud of doubt
You never can tell how close you are
The goal may be near when it seems so far
So turn to the Lord and when you're hardest hit
Put your trust in Him and never quit
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